Monday, September 21, 2009

BICARA TENTANG KURANG

Saya menerima satu komen berbunyi : memang kurang ajar. Saya mengucapkan jutaan terima kasih kepada penghantar komen ini. Saya tak marah. Malahan saya bangga kerana untuk pertama kali dalam hidup ini, KAMI SUAMI ISTERI MAMPU BERSIKAP KURANG AJAR!
Terima kasih Tuhan. Kekuatan ini datang darimu jua.

He abused my son but when we fight for justice, someone called us : no manner/ no manners.
What else to say ? Congratulations Mr X. For the time being , U are the winner but remember JUSTICE DELAY BUT NOT DENY. Sooner or later, the truth will prevail.

I am in Penang now and I am writing from suite 2203 The Gurney Hotel, George Town, Penang. Penang, the Pearl of the Orient, is one of the Asia,s loveliest islands. Its natural beauty and rich history have been attracting curious visitors for centuries. What I can say, Friends, Penang has it all. Do visit Penang!

Tonight, We are invited to have dinner at En. Ahmad Ismail's house ( Elis cookies and brownies's fiancee). Thank u so much for the invitation. Yeah, we love to.

And ... I have an experience to say about my autistic son. Ariff.

On the way to Penang, we stopped at Hentian Sg Perak for Refreshment. We spent around 30 minutes there. At first, everything was ok ... until Ariff accidentally made a mistake. When he tried to open the car's door, the door hit the car beside our car ( White Naza Sutera NCF ....). The driver , a young lady, got mad. I apologised and offered remuneration if any damage occurs. I explained to her about Ariff, I wished Selamat hari Raya ... and I showed to her I really feel guilty about the incident ... but ...seems she's really angry ... not even looked at my face ... Ariff, Ariff ... It's my fault as your mom. I fail to stop u from doing mistake from time to time ... being scolded by others is/was my food BUT I feel no regret. This is the challenge of a mother of an autistic son. Whatever it is, Ariff, I love u so much and I try my best to rectify your mistake. Slowly, hopefully day by day, u will be better and better. To the lady, nothing happened to your car but something happened to my heart according to your attitude. Just imagine, if one day, you have this kind of autistic son ... just imagine ...

Lastly... Ariff, Nilam, get ready. We are going out at 8.00. Apa agaknya menu mak En. Mail ye ? Mesti best coz Ellis kata dia pandai masak. Minta-minta Ariff tak buat perangai di rumah orang. Kena taklimatkan dia how to behave dulu baru boleh pergi.

7 comments:

  1. salam kak..

    lawatan dari team masviona.com

    tgh blog hopping then terjumpe blog akak..
    as a parent, saya dapat rasakan kekecewaan apabila org sekeliling tak dapat menyelami perasaan n bebanan yg terpaksa dipikul bila nak besarkan kanak2 autistik ni.

    bila baca mengenai pengalaman akak n ariff di sekolah, lagi la terkilan bila cikgu yg mengajar tu wat suke ati dia.. maybe ckgu tu just cikgu pada profession, cukup bulan tau nak gaji.. tak selami hati n jiwa anak murid, lebih2 lagi yg autistik !!

    semoga akak n ariff dapat emngharung dugaan yg bakal menimpa. kuatkan semangat dan saya pasti arif juga akan kuat semangatnya bila org disekeliling sentiasa memberi dorongan padanya!

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  2. ya allah~~ sedeyhnyer aty sy bile bacer blog nie~~ walawpun sy hanye seorang ank..hari ni sy lihat pegorbanan ibubapa yang begitu hebat skali...
    sy doakan semoga makcik teros tabah~
    yakinlah dengan allah~~
    hasbunallah wa nikmal wakil..la hau la wala kuwata illah billah...

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  3. assalmualaikum....
    akak.... saya x ada anak lagi.... saya belum kawin....
    tapi, bila saya baca luahan akak, saya rasa sedih...... kecewa, marah..... mungkin perasaan saya x setanding apa yg akak rasa.......
    saya bercerita pasal akak dkt kawan saya.... maybe suggestion ni akak dah dapat tahu....
    cuma saya, baru beberapa jam dkt blog ni, kalau boleh nak jugak tolong, walaupun setakat beberapa potong perkataan sahaja.....
    1. akak dah jumpa wakil rakyat?
    2. mungkin dari situ diorg boleh tolong bgtahu media.....
    just get help that ariff need.....
    tapi kalau saya jadi akak, saya dah tikam2 cikgu tu.....
    saya doakan akak tabah selalu.....
    ariff will be okay.... Insya Allah....

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  4. assalamualaikum.
    sy sangat2 kagumi akak. sy selaku seorang anak sangat2 terharu membaca blog akak.semoga akak tabah menghadapi dugaan dan semoga doa2 akak dimakbulkan, insyallah..

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  5. salam akak,...
    saye bace blog akak bila kawan dr fb fwd blog akak kat shout die..terpanggil sungguh saye tuk bace kisah akak wlupun jam dah menunjukkan 1am disini..
    mengalir airmata saye mengenangkan penderitaan akak tempuh bersama keluarga..xsaye sangka ade lg cikgu begini diskolah dmlaysia...saye doakan satu hari nanti keadilan akan muncul...
    insyaallah,..ade jodoh saye akan carik akak dijelebu..salam ikhlas dr seorang ibu,..utk ibu yg amat saye kagumi..mungkin saye pun xkan setabah akak..moga allah permudahkan segalanya tuk akak...amin..
    salam dr doha,qatar..

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  6. Salam..
    Puan..
    Saya punya seorang anak autistic + hyper..
    Saya ingin tahu dengan lebih lanjut kaedah intervensi..
    Mudah-mudahan ilmu yang bermanfaat dapat dikongsi bersama..
    jutaan terima kasih saya dahulukan..

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  7. as salam. semoga Ani dan suami tabah dan sabar dalam membesarkan Ariff. Ujian ini khusus untuk anda berdua, semoga beroleh ganjaran yang besar dari sisiNya, insyaAllah.

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